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Fear vs. Love

It is a time of belief, faith, and trust. Know within that you are part of something bigger, something older, something wiser. This is the connection that is always there with your Source, your Creator, the One that has given you the spark of life, through truth, that created you out of love.

Fear is what stops you from feeling this connection. Fear is a major function of the programming that you have been indoctrinated with from birth. Fear lies within your ego mind and fear triggers a negative emotion within your heart and soul. Love is your original foundation and lies within your heart and soul; fear is generated from the mind alone. The reason for this is because fear is not part of your spiritual self; only love is.

The mind is the first to receive input from environmental and outside stimulus. In most people information is received by the ego mind and either love or fear are generated as the first response to the information. This stimulus is then felt emotionally and categorized as fear or love within the mind. The emotional level of the fear or love is accentuated by what it connects to within your inner being. This is where your soul/spirit stores your experiences from the ego mind and has processed it using the programming that created your previous beliefs. Whatever beliefs lie within your being both emotionally and/or physically, enhances the fear or love that you are experiencing in your mind about the incoming information. This means that whatever exists within that has not been healed, cleansed, and cleared will enhance and magnify only fear. This will then generate belief about the incoming stimulus and store this information within your inner being. This unconscious reaction is then used as a filter with all of your perceptions.

Therein lies the need for healing any unfinished business that may be stored within your being. This healing is done by the spiritual self using the heart virtues as the guide for checking and healing any past experiences and programming. I have written about this in many of the previous posts on this site in great detail. When the heart virtues are practiced and used in healing, cleansing, and clearing the inner being, a syntax is then created for all incoming experiences and data. After the healing with the heart virtues this syntax will be one of loving consequence and will enhance the spiritual self illuminating the stimulus or data with light that will broadcast out to the information, and modify its frequency into that of grace and peace. Fear cannot exist as your experience when this synergy is in place. This means you can change the frequency of the environment or stimulus with your state of consciousness through Divine Mind. Divine mind is the joining of the healed and reconfigured ego mind using the heart virtues in concert with the spiritual self. This means that all incoming information generates thought through the loving filter of the heart mind known as Divine mind.

Fear cannot exist in the presence of love and living the heart virtues as your foundation generates only love. When you heal your inner realm it changes your perception and when you live the heart virtues the grace you emit can change the world!

Be Well, Be Love ❤️

Humility

Where does true happiness and joy come from?  Loving yourself and others is a requirement of happiness but true joy is felt through humility.

There is much to be said for humility of the self.  Humility of the self and humility of the spirit are linked but are two different aspects.  Humility of the self is related to the egoism of consciousness.  The ego aspect of the self is ever changing and a true challenge for it shrouds itself in falsehood.  As such, the ego can side step the truth by giving you a false sense of humility to create a notion of balance and keep you engaged. With the ego present and operating within your consciousness, there is opposition to true humility.  The ego is not meant for humility and if it feels threatened, it will respond in kind.  At no time when you are operating solely from the ego can you feel humble. The ego is meant for creating and maintaining fear, separation, and anxiety.  This is the state of being that sometimes feels familiar and comfortable and therefore espouses a false sense of the self.

Becoming conscious of where your thoughts are coming from and why, will open a connection to your heart and allow the Virtues to stream forward (Patience, Understanding, Tolerance, Gratitude, Valor, Humility, Compassion).  Surrendering to the truth of Egoic consciousness allows you to enact the first step of spiritual awareness, which is humility.  This then creates the flow of true Universal Love for one’s self which is the purest form of Gratitude.  Putting forth the full spectrum of the Virtues, and feeling them within your heart, will then carry you forward to Joy!  Allowing the Virtues to activate within your being is humility of spirit and expands your consciousness.  Therein lies peace of mind, heart, and soul.  This is the spiritual expression of love for one’s self as a true aspect of Source creating unity consciousness. There is no ego operating when this state of being is achieved.

Understanding how your spiritual nature operates through the Virtue of Humility and how that aspect graduates all the other Virtues, is imperative to your evolution.  This holds within it the key to spiritual expansion and aggregation of your being!

Be Well, Be Love ♥

Compassion

Much is happening to create discord as fear increases within and without. With fear being generated at these levels it means that things are being shaken up enough to release it out into the world. There are those that see this happening and know what it truly is.

When the darkest parts of Oneself is activated, it creates the opportunity to observe what is available for healing if desired, and how to heal it. When healing is not initiated the fear is released. Fear cannot reside within without finding release. This fear then joins with like energy and draws experience to the person releasing the fear. This is a continuous cycle until something changes, for fear begets fear and everything has a breaking point.

Observation of fear shows the person what is generated within; fear or compassion. This reveals what lies within Ones being, and is a guideline for truth. When One has healed the darkness from their being, and encounters fear, compassion is stimulated. This compassion is used to diffuse the fear and send grace to the heart of the darkness that created the fear. This creates opportunity for a moment of clarity and a feeling of peace within that place of darkness. When enough compassion is sent forth to a situation or person, the outcome can be changed as compassion dissipates fear.  Therefore the darkness that generated the fear is met with copious amounts of compassion, which is pure love. When this compassion is generated from a healed source with clarity of being, it creates miraculous results! Not only does it diffuse the fear, but it creates an instantaneous healing!  This gives One in fear clarity and opportunity to look at what the issues are that need to be transformed.  The more compassion One emits, the more light and clarity are generated, and the more powerful the compassion becomes in its ability to heal and transform fear and darkness.

The more work that is done with the virtue of compassion, the more One is transformed within and inspiration is generated for the conversion from fear to love.

Be Well, Be Love ♥

Love

Love.  What exactly is love?  Is it an emotion…..or is it a feeling…..where does it come from?  Is it the same for everyone?

Love is a state of being.  It is multi-faceted and contains both feeling and emotion.  The feeling part of love is consistent, for that is your natural state of being; it’s the emotional facet of love that varies.  The only time you do not have love as your state of being is when you are in fear.  You can not be in both at the same time.  Fear relates back to the ego and programming, as we have discussed before.  Love is the absence of fear and it is Who You Really Are.  When you feel the emotion of love, you are experiencing your heart amplifying your state of being.  This is a viable energy you can pass on to someone or something, and can be expressed in many ways.  It is an energy of high frequency and is not a constant presence.  Emotional love varies and wanes depending on the state you are in.

Fear is not a feeling, it is an emotion tied to the ego mind.  The reason that emotional fear is so hurtful is that it lacks the heart energy.  It does not contain any love, and therefore it is only pain for all involved, and pain is a feeling, replacing love.  Fear cannot exist within a loving environment just as darkness cannot exist within light.

Since love is your natural state of being, it is not something you need to try to do.  When your intentions come from a loving foundation they are passed on and released with love.  This makes them manifest for good and cannot be misinterpreted.  If the receiver of the intention you have put forth does not feel the goodness from your intention, it will still deliver the love that laced it originally.  This will act as grace to give the receiver an activation of the love that is within them to raise their vibration.  In other words, any love that is sent to another is not wasted.  It may not seem to be received in a way you expected, but it is none the less taken in and connects with the love that they really are.

Love carries within it the frequency of forgiveness and compassion.  These are two facets of love that are working all the time, if you are in your natural state of being.  When you are in a loving state, you release the energy of forgiveness and compassion that emanates to all in your presence.  These are the most powerful attributes of true loving intention.  Wether or not you are aware that you are relaying these energies, they are going out and affecting all those around you laying grace everywhere you go.  It is very important for you to be aware of this as it is the one thing that can make a difference to someone that you may not even know.

When you stay connected with your true state of being and maintain your balance, all will be blessed with love in your presence and those you will think about as well.  Your thoughts will flow out into the world changing things that you aren’t even aware of.  You do not have to think or be aware of the love that you are, as that is a given.  Love is an energy and frequency that acts as the carrier of your intentions and your thoughts, and it is all about intention.  Practice seeing the goodness and that will be reinforced by your loving intention.

Be Well, Be Love ♥

Your Being

There are 5 foundational bodies that create your Being. These bodies are; Mental, Emotional, Physical, Spiritual, and Etheric. These are the primary parts of your Being that interact with the world. There is information stored in each of these bodies, and they interact within your life differently. Each one has a ‘different point of view’ and lends some part if itself to each situation. Every experience you have stores information within these parts of your Being. You then recall and expand these parts of yourself with each experience. This is the evolution of your Being.

The healing process extends to each part of your Being. When healing takes place it is not complete until encompasses each body that is affected. This means that when one part of your Being is healed, situations that emulate the unhealed parts come forth to show you where the healing must continue. This is why the situations that arise [that you feel resistant to] are harder to deal with each time. Yet again, when pain is felt in all areas of your Being you don’t feel resistance to it. The reason could be because the pain feels very familiar, and with some people it is comfortable as they have always had the pain. When one part of your being heals this pain, and the other parts have not competed the healing, you might feel some resistance combined with anger associated with the current experience you are having. This is simply showing you the imbalance of your healing process. Knowing this will help you locate the part of your being that needs the healing, and realizing this will start or continue the healing process. This will increase your awareness with all parts of your Being and assist you with connecting all the parts of yourself to Oneness that will elevate your experience and create clarity of being!

You will feel and experience the healing when it is complete on all levels. The ‘memory’ of it will transform into light within your Being, making you expand and radiate this light to others, who with the unconscious recognition of the wellness, are attracted to you. This is one of the reasons people will interact with you out of the blue. The unhealed part of them recognizes the healed parts of you that they have yet to heal. This interaction with you gives that unhealed part of themselves the opportunity to feel the healed part of you, as your light communicates with their being and starts the initiation of healing, which continues long after their interaction with you. This is one of the ways that we can all make the world a better place by healing ourselves within!

When you set the intention to heal and evolve, ask for assistance with healing every level of your Being that is affected, and then commit to the healing no matter how difficult it may be. You can then experience and benefit from the higher frequencies and consciousness that exists here and now.

There is a tremendous amount of Grace that is here and now to assist you! Ask and you shall receive……..

Be Well, Be Love ♥

Forgiveness is for You

Forgiveness is the most challenging of the six virtues. Yet, forgiveness is the key to evolution! The other six virtues cannot carry the evolution of your being without forgiveness.

Forgiveness starts with awareness. Being aware of something or someone that warrants your forgiveness is paramount to beginning the process. There are two parts to forgiveness. Forgiving the situation or person, and forgiving yourself. One cannot be forgiven without the other, for if you don’t forgive yourself, the act of forgiving is nullified as the pain is still there and nothing has truly been healed.

Forgiveness is a process of removing the need to blame someone or something for the pain you are feeling inside due to something happening that you have judged as an assault upon your being. This can be something you consciously experienced or something you have been programmed to believe. Either way, you believe you have been robbed of an opportunity to be happy. We are all responsible for our own happiness; either in understanding that we were temporarily under someone else’s jurisdiction, or the judgements we make because of feeling powerless. This belief or judgment creates resentment and becomes the pain that we feel in relation to the person or situation at the center of our being. The belief that the other person knew that they were causing you pain further exacerbates the experience causing you to feed the pain with more grief, and allowing further injury to occur. This is a never ending cycle of blame and self torture that grows making you a victim of your own misconceptions.

Forgiving is not an easy thing to do as it requires you to be responsible for the pain that you are feeling. The only way to forgive is to feel responsible for the pain and resentment you are feeling. No one can hurt you unless you allow them to do so. You were willing to allow someone to hurt you that was injured themselves. No one causes anyone pain unless they are in pain themselves. The question to ask yourself when potential injury arises is; what part inside of you is weak and subjective to injury by the other? Once this is identified, how can you strengthen that part of you to avoid further distortion or injury? Finding a way to avoid the situation from happening at all is the mark of an expanded consciousness and willingness to take responsibility for your being. This is the mark of a spiritually mature being, and requires courage to move past the need for acceptance and approval. Once you have discovered the power within yourself to provide all that you need, forgiveness can begin. You will actually want to forgive those you feel have wronged you as the imprint of their pain upon you is gone.

Forgiveness is for you. Although you feel it may be letting someone off the hook, you do not have that power. The person was ‘on the hook’ already and that is why they injured you, otherwise the situation would have never happened. Bring yourself to the point of being willing to forgive and you have come more than half way! The joy and happiness that lies on the other side of forgiveness will take you to newer heights of love and peace within. No one can do this for you, this is your expansion and personal Spiritual Awareness that only you can heal and empower. There is much grace here for you. Feel it and it will give you strength and will.  Be Well Be Love ♥

Emotions, Feelings, & Changes

Emotions can be strong with many layers and varieties of feelings. This can sometimes make a situation more confusing and disconcerting. Trying to find your way through the mire of your emotions is a challenge and one that seems to take on a life of its own. There are differences between emotions and feelings. They are not the same nor do they come from the same place.

Emotions come from the mind and feelings come from the heart. Thoughts that you have invoke emotions, which in turn create feelings. Let’s observe the feeling of joy. When you think of a situation or event that brought you the emotion of elation and upliftment (joy), you felt it as happiness and love within your heart. Thoughts create the connection with the mind/heart. Emotions are what is created by the thought, and in turn the heart turns the emotion to a feeling. This creates a vibration within your being and reverberates through all of your chakras (energy centers) and either strengthens them or weakens them. What follows creates attitudes and reactions to these instances with the information being stored for later reference and recall. This is why so many situations may feel the same to you and your reactions to them seem to start to loop. Your heart remembers the vibration as soon as the thought creates the emotion. This makes it easy to react quickly to thoughts as your mind ‘compartmentalizes’ the information making your reaction automatic. This does not allow for evolution, change, or growth as your emotions, perceptions, and feelings do not change.

How then, can you keep this from happening? Within each moment lies the opportunity to create something different. This is a conscious act in the now, and you must be fully present to respond to the thought that is creating the emotion. Being present allows you to check the emotion that is being revealed about the thought and adjust it consciously, before allowing it to become compartmentalized. This allows for change, growth, evolution, and clarity within. Nothing will change unless you change.

Each time you change your reaction to something, it creates a different vibration which changes something (or your reaction to someone) within your life. This creates alignment that reflects back to you the life that you are creating for yourself. It has been said that we are Creators. This is a part of that power!

Allowing for differences within each moment, even if you are dealing with same situations or people, can reveal to you a different facet of thought or supposition to incite a specific response within. If you are evolving no two moments are the same, which means no reactions, emotions, or feelings are the same. Allow yourself to change, and your life will change too. You can have more peace, happiness, joy, and love in your life. It is up to you!
Be Well, Be Love ♥

LOOKING BACK ~ MOVING FORWARD

As the year comes to a close you may find yourself looking back at a lifetime of growth and development that has brought you to this point of attainment and awareness. This may feel different from years past as we have crossed the ending of one era and are now at the beginning of the next!
Looking back at your life and the realization of changes and opportunities that have formed who you have become will shed light on where you are today. The letting go of the past will open you to the possibility of the future being more authentic and feeling more empowered, rather than needy and weak. This threshold of empowerment will lead you to the awakening of your being with the energy of the past falling away. This choice to expand upon the goodness of your authentic self will give you a clarity of feeling the new beginning of this year.
Appending areas of your life where healing has occurred will impart your strength of character and open you to a new awareness within your heart to the connection of all things. This gives you the energetic stamina to continue the healing process and creates the strength within your heart to do, think, and feel the energetic quality of the new frequency of being that connects you with the flow of your life.
As this cleansing continues and your frequency of being increases the reaction from the world around you answers the call to rise and feel the love you are emitting. This clarity of being is felt by all around you and it feels as peace within.
Letting go of anything tied to the past life you are releasing will instantly change your energetic field. This systemic release of anything or anyone that no longer serves who you are will create a new world of opportunity and increase, meant to join you with those in the new age of awareness and connection. This is a beginning of an era meant for those of pure intention and consciousness.
With the old of your being falling away, you will feel the sparks of new beginnings within. With the layers of the past rescinding, the ego will recapitulate within attempting to hold its control over your mind. This will feel less intimidating as you continue releasing your past life, as the ego is very invested in what you have become. The ego will not know where it fits in the new paradigm of your life, so it will continue to attempt to draw you back to the past life you are leaving behind. The more resilient you become to the temptation of the ego and your past, the more strength and optimism you will gain. Refining your will and using affirmations beginning with ‘I AM’ will assist you with pressing forward to the new frequency of being you have laid out before you. Reminding yourself that the past is not who you truly are, but who you had become [until now], will assist with the release and strengthen your willingness to continue forward.
Bringing your conscious awareness into the present, and knowing this is where you exist right now, will open your life to new intention and dimensional thinking that will empower you to change your life. All is well in your world and you are the one that will make it so. Be Well, Be Love ♥

The Shift

There was a major influx of energy last week that was initiated to purge all that is impermanent within your being.  You may have experienced thoughts, beliefs, or feelings (that are not part of your true and authentic being) that surfaced for purging and healing. This was explained in earlier messages; that the time has come for this part of your awakening to be completed! 

The reverence for all things including Mother Earth, is the next step in living from the heart. Once that is accomplished it does not mean that all growth will cease. It means that the way will be made clearer for your soul to expand and your heart to play a major part in that.

The evolution of your being will always require effort on your part. The struggle (resistance) that you have had to deal with will diminish with the healing and release of things internal that do not belong to you (programming).  In addition, there is another part of your internal issues have been created around the strife that you have been put through in dealing with the economic structures as they currently exist. These will shift, and you must be ready for this by doing your part!


Shifting is bridging from the old to the new. This is can be a gentle process that requires the willingness to shift that which must, for evolution to continue.  Allowing this change to happen within yourself and in others, is a necessary step toward growth and activation of abundance consciousness. You cannot experience and integrate something new when you are energetically stuck in old feelings, thoughts, and habits!


Opening to the changes that you are resisting within yourself will shift things for you, and allow the new frequencies of love, abundance, and prosperity to flow. This will create new paths of growth to come into your life to elevate your consciousness. This will then open new dimensional attributes within to bring new information and frequencial alignment to your life. There is a saying, ‘from within, so without’. Understanding this saying is the key to your awakening. There can be no change without this shift in consciousness. When you stop any resistance you might have and listen to your heart, you will find the way out of the quagmire of your life! There is a new consciousness on the other side of resistance; one of deliverance and expansion. This is the truest sense of thriving….. from within, and without. ♥

The path of forgiveness

How do I forgive………..truly forgive?

Forgiveness is a path and a process. To truly forgive, one has to open themselves to all possibility and non-judgment. One cannot forgive while in judgment of another, or one’s self. Judgment stands between you and forgiveness. You are programmed to judge. When you judge someone you cut off all possibility for forgiveness. Judgment comes from the ego. Ego attachment is a powerful thing, and one cannot decompress the programming while the ego is running things. So, forgiveness is connected to all that you believe. The ego, as we have discussed before, doesn’t like peace. The ego thrives on crisis, chaos, and conflict. This keeps you distracted and keeps you from conscious awareness and love. Becoming aware of your thoughts is a first step to questioning yourself and your beliefs. When you have a judgmental thought ask where the thought comes from. How does the thought feel? Does this thought bring up other thoughts? Allow your thoughts to unfold back to their origination. Experience the feelings these thoughts generate. What do they feel like? At this point, you might have lost the original thought of judgment, and are into the place where the thought truly comes from. This is the place where healing begins.

Most of your beliefs are about yourself, as this is what you use for perception and comparison for judgmental thinking. This is a place of fear within your being. This is the seat of the ego. This is where all thoughts, feelings, judgments, and opinions come from. Why do you feel threatened? What is the basis of your fear? What if you didn’t believe what you are thinking? What if you believed the opposite, or just decided that this thought was not true for you at all? What would change? How would a new thought feel? Where did the original thought come from and who does it serve? Would there be utter chaos if you believed something different? How would that affect your life? At this point, notice how these questions, and the different thoughts they generate, feel within your heart. Your heart is the seat of your truth.

Thoughts are frequency. When you think certain thoughts, they generate a vibration that draws experience to you. The universe is interactive. You are the creator of your life. Whatever you think draws that experience to you, as you are creating by thinking. Your life emulates your thoughts. Your thoughts are generated by your beliefs. If you want to change your thoughts you must change your beliefs. Finding the answers about your beliefs lies within your programming. If your life is not working, it is because you believe something that is not true for you. This has nothing to do with religion or politics. It has to do with your inner relationship to your life, and those within it who have programmed you to believe what they thought was true for them. Most programming stems from lack. This sets up striving. Striving is unreachable. Striving makes you ignore the truth. Truth surfaces when you allow yourself to just be without believing anything your ego is telling you. You can distinguish the ego, as it comes in as thoughts that attack, judge, and create fear. These thoughts almost sound like a different person ‘selling’ you on its ‘product’, which is nothing more than its beliefs. It poses itself as defending you from an enemy. Do you see how this elaborate scheme is hooked into your being? You deserve the truth. The truth is that you are a loving and deserving being of light, and nothing but that truly matters. It doesn’t need to be complicated. If you were to stop enforcing someone else’s agenda, you could change your life. Most of what you believe is simply not true. If you were to change your beliefs, your thoughts would align with the truth, and forgiveness would flow. All would then be as it should be. When you allow yourself to find the truth it will set you free! ♥